As children, we are told to own up to our lies and transgressions because, if we don’t, they will inevitably come back to haunt us. Denying, concealing, or failing to rectify them leads to a permanent program of falsification which necessarily gets us in deeper.
Once on a path like this, it will become clear that what is needed is a way out, not a way further in. Without a clearing – a cleansing – there is no way to deal single-mindedly with the problem area. The only option is to deal double-mindedly because we cannot escape its hold over us. Continue reading →












